“Relationship advice I wish I knew before getting married”: 5 couples share their real-life experiences
Published On : 2024-11-16T19:09:55+0530 [ IST ] |
Author : Mayur_Tembhare
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Wisdom with experience is the best but haven't we all thought: "If only I knew this sooner, things would have been easier, I would have done it differently?" Marriage is the same. It is a beautiful life journey full of love and challenges and you learn as you move forward with your partner.
Talking is important but silence can say a lot too.
When I first married Priya I thought we always needed to talk but I learned that sometimes it's okay to be quiet. I accepted the fact that Priya isn't always upset when she's quiet- sometimes she just needs time to think and be alone for a while. I've learned that silence can communicate and be as meaningful as
2. “Don’t let small problems grow - deal with them early.”
At first I would ignore small fights with Raj thinking they would go away and we would be normal again. But I learned the hard way that they don't go away on their own -- they just get bigger and create significant issues. Now when something is bothering us we talk about it right away even if it's something small. It helps
3. “You can’t change your partner but you can change how you react.”
When I married Ayesha I thought she should be more like me as in we should like similar things we should always be on the same page and even have the same opinions on every matter. But I realized that trying to change her didn't work. What helped was changing how I reacted to things. I learned to
4. “Marriage is a team effort not a competition.”
In the beginning I used to compare myself to Ananya all the time thinking I had to be better or do more than her. But slowly I learned that marriage is about being a team, it is not a competition. When one of us does well we both do well. We help each other grow and that’s how our relationship stays strong
5. “Little acts of love mean so much more than you think.”
After being married for a while I thought the romance would fade and it's okay and natural. But I realized that it's the small things that matter the most- like surprising Aarav with his favorite food or leaving him a sweet note every now and then. These little gestures remind us that we still care for each other and love is still there even after all this time
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Wisdom with experience is the best but haven't we all thought: "If only I knew this sooner, things would have been easier, I would have done it differently?" Marriage is the same. It is a beautiful
