Are you unkind to your partner? 5 things you may be doing unknowingly
Published On : 2024-11-25T17:38:34+0530 [ IST ] |
Author : Mayur_Tembhare
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In relationships kindness is important but sometimes without realizing it we can do things that hurt our partners. Unkindness isn't always about yelling or arguing; it can show up in small, everyday actions that slowly damage trust and closeness.
1. Not listening fully
Listening isn't just about hearing words it's about actively engaging with your partner's emotions and thoughts. If you find yourself zoning out or dismissing their concerns with a quick "I'm busy" or "It's not a big deal," you're showing them that their feelings don't matter
2. Assuming you know the best
When you're in a long-term relationship it's easy to think you know what your partner needs or wants without asking. This assumption can lead to overlooked desires and miscommunications. Whether it's choosing a dinner spot, making decisions without consulting them or assuming how they'll feel about something
3. Being dismissive
You do this when you neglect your partner's thoughts, feelings or concerns as unimportant. You may interrupt them in the middle of talking, roll your eyes or degrade their opinion thus invalidating and dismissing the one you love. Everyone wants to hear and gain respect in a relationship.
4. Neglectingaffection
As relationships progress it's easy to slip into routine and forget the small gestures of affection that once felt natural. A simple touch, a thoughtful compliment or a “how was your day?” can have a big impact on how loved and appreciated your partner feels.
5. Take your partner for granted
When you've been with someone for a long time it's easy to assume they'll always be there and you may stop appreciating them as you once did. Taking your partner for granted can appear in small ways like neglecting to say "thank you" for their help or assuming they will always take on responsibilities without showing appreciation. This can lead to feelings of resentment and frustration
Kindness is more than just a feeling—it's an ongoing practice. Being aware of these subtle behaviours can help you build a stronger, more compassionate relationship. If you notice any of these signs don't panic; simply acknowledge them and start making small adjustments.
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In relationships kindness is important but sometimes without realizing it we can do things that hurt our partners. Unkindness isn't always about yelling or arguing; it can show up in small, everyda
